Game On – Teaching Self Control

August 28, 2020
by Hillary Alexander

How to moderate your puppy’s play.

Grab the best treats you can think of; roast beef, a bit of chicken, something special and different.

Let your puppy begin to play with another. Observe how stimulated and energetic their play becomes. Before things get too over the top, stop them show them each the treat, have them come and sit in front of you but separated. Give them each a bit of a treat, praise them, give a bit more, and once they are calmer send them back into play. What this accomplishes is actually quite powerful. You are going to get those heart rates down and drain that adrenaline.

Allow the play to go on a moment or two, and repeat. Then send them back in.

Now allow them to go a bit further. When their bodies begin to stiffen, they become very vocal, try to pin each other down, or appear overheated, call them back to you. If they don’t come back immediately simply blow on the treats so the smell wafts in their direction. You can even take a bit of treat in your hand and move it in their direction so they see it. And remember. Once they are both back and sitting for you repeat your praise and treat them lavishly (“treat,” is a verb in my world).

Play this game several times throughout each play date and you will probably notice that one or both puppies are more than willing to come back to you. In a short time, your puppy will learn to hear you, stop himself, and to fly back to you in the midst of play. In this enjoyable way, you are actually teaching him to control himself – on command

1:30 PM – 2:00 PM: Wind Down & Pick-Up

The day wraps up with a soft wind-down. Bill might enjoy a final snuggle, some light movement, or just a calm space to transition before pick-up.

For first-time pups, Day 1 includes an earlier 1:00 PM pick-up to help them adjust to the rhythm of a full day at Puppy School.

What Makes Jumpstart Special?

At Jumpstart, we believe that puppyhood is sacred.

These early weeks are full of potential, and we’re here to guide each pup, gently and intentionally, through real-world challenges and joyful discoveries.

For puppies like Bill, every day is a blend of structure and freedom, play and learning, rest and enrichment. And every moment is designed to support a lifetime of calm, confident companionship.

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Jumpstart Puppy School

Our flagship foundational program for puppies 8 weeks to 6 months old. This multi-week immersive experience blends expert training, curated socialization, and daily enrichment to help your puppy grow into a confident, calm, and well-mannered companion. Ideal for anyone who wants to give their pup the very best start in life. Schedule a visit to the nursery.

Teen Tune-Up Program
For pups 6 to 18 months old who need support navigating adolescence. Whether you missed early training or just need a reset, this program offers targeted guidance in impulse control, recall, leash manners, and more, using the same loving, structured approach. Get started with Teen Tune-Up.

Daycare & Enrichment Program
A unique alternative to traditional doggy daycare. Perfect for dogs of all ages who thrive in smaller groups and intentional play environments. Our enrichment-focused care includes sensory games, gentle socialization, structured rest, and low-arousal activities that support mental and emotional balance.
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If you live in or near Marin, California this is a great way to socialize your puppy. Nursery Visits are by appointment only and take place on Wednesday at 3:00PM.

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